A beginner’s guide to finding the stones that match your energy, intentions, and lifestyle.

Starting your journey with gemstones and crystal jewelry can feel magical, but it can also be a little overwhelming. With so many beautiful stones to choose from, how do you know which ones are meant for you?

In this guide, I’ll help you choose crystals based on your personal energy, intentions, and even your zodiac sign. 

1. Start with Your Intention

The easiest way to begin is by asking yourself: What do I want more of in my life right now?

Here are a few common intentions and the stones to get you started:

• Protection: Black Tourmaline, Obsidian, Hematite

• Love & Self-Worth: Rose Quartz, Rhodonite, Garnet

• Abundance & Prosperity: Citrine, Green Aventurine, Pyrite

• Clarity & Focus: Fluorite, Clear Quartz, Lapis Lazuli

• Peace & Calm: Amethyst, Lepidolite, White Howlite, Blue Lace Agate

• Confidence and Courage: Tiger's Eye, Amazonite.

Pro Tip: Choose 1–2 intentions to focus on at a time. Let your jewelry be a daily reminder of those desires.

2. Tune into Your Energy

Some people are naturally drawn to specific stones—trust that pull. It often reflects a subconscious energetic need. You can also ask yourself:

• What colors am I most drawn to?

• Which emotions do I feel most often and which ones do I want to shift?

• Do I want grounding energy or uplifting vibes?

3. Use Kinesiology

If you are in the physical presence of crystals, use your body to determine what you need. Hold the crystal in your left (non dominant) hand, take a deep breath and stand with your feet shoulder width apart, then wait. If your body leans forward, it's a Yes. If your body leans backwards, it's a No. This is a simplified explanation of Kinesiology. A lot of my clients have found this method very useful.

4. Align with Your Zodiac Sign (Optional but Fun)

Many gemstones are linked to zodiac signs, offering support for both strengths and challenges. This step is optional.

• Aries: Carnelian, Red Jasper, Bloodstone

• Taurus: Rose Quartz, Emerald, Malachite

• Gemini: Citrine, Blue Lace Agate, Tiger’s Eye

• Cancer: Moonstone, Selenite, Aquamarine

• Leo: Sunstone, Pyrite, Garnet

• Virgo: Amazonite, Moss Agate, Peridot

• Libra: Lapis Lazuli, Opal, Rhodonite

• Scorpio: Obsidian, Labradorite, Smoky Quartz, Citrine

• Sagittarius: Amethyst, Sodalite, Turquoise

• Capricorn: Onyx, Fluorite, Garnet

• Aquarius: Aquamarine, Amethyst, Hematite

• Pisces: Labradorite, Blue Apatite, Amethyst

5. Keep It Simple, Let It Flow

You don’t have to get it “perfect.” Your crystal journey is personal and intuitive. Start with a piece that resonates with you, whether it’s the meaning, color, or just a gut feeling, and build from there.

Conclusion

Crystals and gemstone jewelry are more than accessories—they’re wearable intentions. Let this guide support you as you explore the stones that call to you and begin to build a collection that not only elevates your style, but also your spirit.

Ready to find your perfect stone? Browse our collection of intentional gemstone jewelry HERE or reach out for a personalized recommendation.

xo

Beryl Oduor